Advice for overcoming doubt

Hi everyone:

Following last Saturday's chat, someone asked me this question:
"Is there any feedback you have regarding doubting going all in with TMS?"

I said I would answer this question in the public forum, just in case someone else is wondering the same thing, so here goes:

Personally, this was not a problem for me, because I had somehow been brought up to believe that I had more control over my health and well-being than many people think we do. So I was already into visualization and deep breathing and and self-care rather than running to the doctor for everything. I believed in the mind-body connection, but I didn't have all the pieces, and I certainly knew nothing about the TMS brain mechanism, which is why I was falling apart as I reached age 60 (along with my lifelong anxiety spinning out of control).

Dr. Sarno provided those missing pieces, and I was ready to take in everything he had to offer (my first book was The Divided Mind). Seriously doing the work (the SEP, and other resources - you can see the list on my profile) and sticking around here were the keys to getting my life back. I still struggle - getting older doesn't help - but my recovery is quicker, and I'm no longer in danger of becoming housebound with crippling anxiety and other symptoms.

Here is what I generally advise doubters, which is to ask yourself: "What's the worst thing that can happen if I abandon the physical focus for now, and think psychologically instead?"

In other words, are you in any kind of physical danger if you abandon physical thinking and physical procedures for a while? Have you been checked out for your condition(s) and is there some kind of medical intervention that you've been advised that you must do for your health and well-being? Typically, for people who have found their way here, the answer to that question is no. Most people have been offered possible options, but they aren't usually urgent, and some (like surgery) are downright risky. Even more people have tried all of the options, and they are ready to abandon them.

Consumer Reports, the magazine for the great middle-class consumer, has been saying for a year or two now: "Don't have surgery until you've tried exercise, PT, yoga, and meditation." Which to me is revolutionary.

I recently came across this article on Vox: https://www.vox.com/science-and-health/2018/5/17/17276452/chronic-pain-treatment-psychology-cbt-mindfulness-evidence (100 million Americans have chronic pain. Very few use one of the best tools to treat it.)

I believe that mind-body awareness is right on the edge of going mainstream. The traditional medical profession will probably be the last to get on board.

So with that in mind, and given the virtually zero cost and zero side effects of thinking psychologically - you owe it to yourself to give it a try. Just be very alert to the fact that your primitive fearful brain is going to fight you every step of the way. Because THAT is where your doubt actually comes from.

~Jan

 

I guess I'm less interested in the individual details , and more encouraged by the general concept that "thinking psychologically" is being heard more, and becoming more accepted.

I'm going to take a leap here and say a couple of things:

1. Getting hung up on individual details in the stories of one or two individuals is just another way that your brain creates doubt. It's also a form of perfectionism - and we all know where that leads, right?

2. Continuing to look for proof or confirmation from other people - whether they are medical or mental health professionals, or fellow-sufferers - gets in the way of recovery. And... it's yet another way that your brain creates doubt.