Confusing Back/Pelvic Pain

Hello People, hopefully you have all a so far good sunday

Im quite new and try making it all good readable.

Its actually not that long ago (a week...?) Since I(30/M) had a stich in my.. well. Best friend... It was also sunday, and i tried to relief myself. After just some hours i felt a quite nerving constant pressure on my lower half. Thought nothing... Tried to sleep ... Bit it was a nightmare. I couldnt find rest.

Soon I went to the doctor. At first a Urologist. Gave an sample but he said its ok.. maybe bath it in some camille. Thats what i did the next days. Nothing much changed. I also went to my new normal Doctor. she looked at me with a constant glare... Like i was a ghost and she really told me that. I gave a bloodsample and she wrote me ill. Later the week she called me in, told me its ok. But apparently i went a bit emotional... So she wrote on Paper "Despressional Phase"


So far so ok. Nothing much changed. After some days i went to the Urologist again because there has to be something that troubles me. But before I went to the Ambulantic Speechtime of a new Orthophadist (? Sorry English isnt my first language). After 2 Hours he told me. Nope all ok. I said everything.. my whole back is on tension and all stuff above. From his point of view: Im Healthy even though im pretty much Skinny. Ofc I am. Its about my whole life as it.

So crossed that out, i went to the Urologist again. Told him it aint got better.
He used now about everything he can muster. Sonography, Looked at my testicals and felt if theres anything odd... Even my First Prostateexam. Hell he could have warned me.. haha.

But after a conclusion that I have nothing... Hes checking my Urine now for "slow growing bacteria". If I hear nothing from him, then theres nothing he can do.

I started thinking all over the place... Stressed out, forgot to eat, forgot to relax and more and more.... Suddenly i felt in my Pelvic area that something fells like untighten.. its very hard to describe because i never ever felt anything like this.

Making things now to a small end: All I have now is Sometimes a nervous Pelvic area... More urge to pee as I am used to and sometimes leg pain like I ran a Marathon.

Is this really about TMS? So far noone found any answer.
My Parents told me that I am close, or even am, a Hypochondriac.

I always tend to escalate and stress out on various things... Even when I had tensons in my back earlier i thought that I got spinal damage...

Edit: i forgot to mention that Painkillers based on Ibuprofen doesnt work... So far everything i had on pain disappeared when i took pills