Day 25

Its day 25 for me. I am low, anxious depressed and sore. I feel confused - don't really know where to start or end with all the emotions and thoughts

 

Hi,Padraig. I'm sorry you're discouraged, but I understand. I like Jan's suggestions. Claire Weeke's book is excellent, and so is Alan Gordon's program. I also suggest that you find things to do that make you happy. Laugh or at least smile. They both release calming endorphins that help heal us and lift our spirits.

You also might find some help in these thoughts:

Christian D. Larson
American metaphysical and New Thought author
(1874-1954)

Promise Yourself

To be so strong that nothing
can disturb your peace of mind.
To talk health, happiness, and prosperity
to every person you meet.

To make all your friends feel
that there is something in them
To look at the sunny side of everything
and make your optimism come true.

To think only the best, to work only for the best,
and to expect only the best.
To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others
as you are about your own.

To forget the mistakes of the past
and press on to the greater achievements of the future.
To wear a cheerful countenance at all times
and give every living creature you meet a smile.

To give so much time to the improvement of yourself
that you have no time to criticize others.
To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear,
and too happy to permit the presence of trouble.

To think well of yourself and to proclaim this fact to the world,
not in loud words but great deeds.
To live in faith that the whole world is on your side
so long as you are true to the best that is in you.

 

I've been listening to the audio book of Claire Weekes: Hope and Help for Your Nerves and find her voice and tone very calming and inspiring. I think listening to her words and advice is even better than reading them for myself, personally. Maybe it will help you too. Good luck and hang in there.

 

We are all subject to confusion with our plethora of human feelings. While we all get overwhelmed by our feelings and thoughts. The more we practice investigating and tolerating feelings, and observing our mind, the easier it gets.

It may help to mention also that we don't have to try to change any of what's going on inside ourselves, in order to use Dr. Sarno's work. He directs us to just see and understand how the inner life leads to pain --connecting what we are seeing and feeling inside to the need not to feel, so that pain arises as a distraction. We can't stop the inner turmoil.

So in a way, your difficulties of late are giving you a great deal of evidence of the kind of suffering going on inside that "does not want to be felt." Perhaps you are getting direct evidence of the dynamic which causes the TMS. Just knowing this is the source of your symptoms is enough to undermine TMS.