Taking it to a new level

Today I told someone I love that they are regularly doing something that is really hurting me. I have procrastinated this conversation because things like this can change a relationship. Maybe permanently. I decided it’s eating me alive because I haven’t said anything. I feel like this is taking my honesty to a new level.

We shall see what happens.

 

I'm sure that whatever you said needed to be said @Diana-M. I hope that whatever it is and involves, it will all work out fine for you and in your relationship with them, even if it may take a while for any possible dust to settle. Sometimes it can be a case of "it's darkest before the dawn"... that is, things may seem the worst right before they improve - which is something to bear in mind should there be any fallout at all. Keep strong, my friend!

 

This is great. I don't think it matters if anything changes in them. The change in you has already happened and that is all to the good in our process.

 

Yes, Jan it is on top of me having a hard day but I think that’s why I was having a hard day because this has been brewing for a long time.

You are right I immediately felt relief. And I think the biggest problem was that I wasn’t willing to say anything— and now I am, so that’s a big change!

Thanks for your encouragement! I always appreciate it.