What are you saying?

Can someone please dumb down in the simplest terms possible what the hell is steve ozanich trying to say?
I like him, read his stuff. But I dont understand what he is saying needs ti happen.

Please someone help

 

I asked perplexity.ai to dumb it down for you and for it to suggest a suitable daily routine in line with Steve O's advice, and this is what it replied...

Steve Ozanich says that to get better from TMS/ mind/body symptoms, you need to understand what is really happening emotionally and how your brain creates pain or symptoms to protect you. He explains that fear and anger, especially deep unconscious anger, are the root causes behind these symptoms. The body creates physical pain or fatigue as a distraction from these hidden emotions. Healing starts by learning to recognize and accept these feelings instead of ignoring or denying them.

Ozanich highlights the importance of daily education about TMS and doing simple awareness exercises, like journaling about your feelings, to retrain your brain. Understanding that symptoms are harmless signals from your body can stop the "body/mind" from causing pain. You don’t necessarily need to relive or process every trauma; simply grasping how your mind causes symptoms is enough for most people to improve.

In essence, Steve says: Stop fighting your symptoms, learn what your emotions are, accept them, and your symptoms will reduce because your brain no longer needs to hide those feelings behind pain or fatigue.

A simple daily practice following Steve Ozanich's advice for healing from TMS/mind-body symptoms could look like this:

1. Morning Awareness:
   
   • Spend 5 minutes sitting quietly.
     
     
   • Think about any physical symptoms you have but remind yourself: "This pain/fatigue is safe and caused by my brain protecting me from emotions."
     
     
   • Say quietly, "I am safe. I don’t need to be afraid of these symptoms."

1. Journaling Your Emotions (10 minutes):
   • Write down any feelings you notice—anger, fear, frustration—even if they seem small or hidden.
     
     
   • Don’t judge these feelings; just notice them.
     
     
   • Example: "I feel frustrated about work," or "I notice some anger about a past event."
2. Mindfulness During the Day:
   • Throughout your day, pause occasionally and check in with your body.
     
     
   • Notice if you are holding tension or feeling pain.
     
     
   • Remind yourself mentally that this is your brain’s way to protect you from feelings you haven’t fully faced yet.
3. Reframing Thoughts:
   • When negative or fearful thoughts about your symptoms come up, gently say:
     "This won’t hurt me. It’s my brain trying to protect me."
     
     
   • Replace worries about damage with curiosity about your feelings instead.
4. Evening Reflection:
   • Reflect briefly on your day.
     
     
   • What feelings did you notice? Were you able to accept them or feel safe despite symptoms?
     
     
   • Write one sentence like "Today I noticed I feel [anger/fear/etc.] but I am safe."

This routine focuses on building awareness and acceptance of emotions, reducing fear of symptoms, and retraining your brain daily. No heavy trauma work is required, just patience and kindness to yourself as you learn to understand your mind/body connection better.

 

That could infact be the most helpful thing ive read. Thank you so much

 

@BloodMoon Love the ai recap. It's super concise but filled with a lot of good stuff!

 

Steve was very much a bulldoze your way through the pain kind of person. In The Great Pain Deception he acknowledged his anger but didn't do much in terms of writing or expressing, just push through physical activity. He has come around a lot on that and acknowledges he probably would have healed faster had he not taken that approach, and focuses more on mindfulness now.

That being said, his books is one of my favorites and I'm still more of a bulldozer.

 

Does he actually even say anywhere what his approach is? Lol