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Hi there,

My name is Kyle, I am a 24 year old male currently residing in Phoenix, Arizona and I have been on quite a journey!

Starting around 5 years ago (fall of 2010) after a trip to the dentist I begin to have very severe headaches that wouldn't budge no matter what my PCP prescribed. They were the kind of headaches that started at the base of my neck and wrapped up around my eyes. They were with me day and night for probably just under two months.

During this time, the headaches started to fade but they were replaced by new symptoms. I began to have shortness of breath, excessive post nasal drip, and a rapid thumping pulse. Thinking it was allergy related I saw an allergist who ruled that I was allergic to certain molds and pollens. He prescribed inhalers and tried 3 or 4 different allergy medications. None of which helped.
He referred me to an ENT to do a laryngoscopy to see if I had GERD, which could be causing my issues.
I saw the ENT, and the test did confirm I did have light evidence of GERD on my vocal folds.
I also began having digestive issues, so I transitioned to a gastroenterologist who did a endoscopy to rule out celiac or see if there was anything else going on. The results stated that I had slight GERD, but that is about it.

I saw no improvement on medication, so I had him order a abdominal ultrasound per the suspicion (on my part) that my gallbladder was causing my problems. My gallbladder, kidneys and liver all checked out fine.
He then refereed me to an endocrinologist to see if I was having adrenal problems that were messing with my nervous system. She did a full endocrinological work up and found nothing remarkable (see a pattern here??).
Looking over my file, she noticed there was a note about on my abdominal ultrasound that my PCP didn't catch. It mentioned something about a dark area or mass, so she ordered a MRI which found a tumor down on my psoas muscle, it was biopsied and found to be benign. I had it removed a few months later just to be safe.

After all this, I went the Mayo Clinic and saw nearly all of the same times of specialists, and had tons of lab work done as well as a new endoscopy, a barium swallow, and new spirometry test. Nothing remarkable...

I took some time off of doctors and began having some back pain. I went on to see an Osteopath and a few Chiropractors all to find no relief. I decided to see a Rheumatologist just to see if by chance it could be some sort of autoimmune condition. She really didn't come up with much, but we talked about how it seemed possible that I had Ankylosing Spondylitis - an autoimmune arthritic condition. At this point I was so sick and tired of doctors, and after learning that there was nothing a doctor could do for this condition I decided to just call it quite with my time in the medical community. We didn't seem to have too good of an understanding of each other. This was during the spring of 2013.

I didn't really see a doctor until August of this year, and was sort of working under the assumption that I had Ankylosing Spondylitis since I seemed pretty fit and I had no idea what else was wrong with me since I was medically "sound" in pretty much every other way. I began to have a very intense fatigue that began around June or July (2015). It would come and go, but sort of set in pretty hard around August, so that's why I decided to go to the doctor. He ran all sorts of blood work and the only thing that turned up was that I was BARELY pre-diabetic. I began to have fasciculations and random muscle twitches, which he basically boiled down to stress and anxiety.
He even ran the blood test for Ankylosing Spondylitis and ordered an X-Ray to see if I had it... and I didn't!! This sort of shattered my reality because I was certain I had it. After finding this out, that meant that after 5 long years of health problems, I had not a single diagnosis and yet another doctor just sort of shrugging at me. He sent me on my way and told me I needed to learn how to relax. The last time I saw him was in September, and shortly after I started seeing him I began to have numbness in my left arm. The numbness then spread to a spot on my leg, and traveled down to my foot. The numbness also spread from my hand to my arm. During a panic attack one day (which I have only ever had like 2 of) the numbness spread to my right leg. This was a major sign that everything that was going on with me was sort of "psychosomatic" in a way. The anxiety attack was about my health, and how I have no idea what is wrong/or when I will ever get better.

Because of the numbness, fasciculations, and muscle twitches I decided to see a neurologist. I saw him on Monday and he believed me to be Neurologically sound. He doesn't believe it's even worth my time to get an EMG or MRI to see if I have ALS or MS because I passed his clinical exam so well.
He told me he thought it was more than likely the cause of stress, and told me I really needed to do something about it and potentially consider therapy. I have gone to therapy though, years of it. I was seeing a therapist for a good portion of my "doctor break" from 2013-2015.

I should have mentioned that some time during all of this, probably after I stopped seeing doctors in 2013 I go heavily into mind body philosophy and the subconscious. I have all of John Sarno's books, as well as a few other mind body healing books. I decided to really dedicate my time to finally getting over this by doing a better job of managing my stress as I am sure I simply have TMS/MBS at this point.
I cannot get a TMS diagnosis as there are no therapists here, but I think it is pretty safe to say I have TMS at this point. I have to ask though, how do you guys fully accept this? I am a natural worrier and need to just lay this to rest. I believe the body is capable of amazing things. I just need to believe it for ME.

I will say that as a new thing appeared for me each time lost all most all concern for the previous condition. For example, since finding out I didn't have Ankylosing Spondylitis, I have and almost zero concern or pain. Keep in mind I had consistent back pain for years, I even stopped using a pillow at one point - I have since resumed use of a pillow as I am trying to "resume normal activities".
I have been consumed by the twitches and 24/7 numbness that developed during and after I had my most recent round of check ups.

I just wanted to put this here to introduce myself and say "hello!".
I am glad to be joining your community.

 

Hey Jan, thanks for the reply.
I'm super glad to be here. I can't believe I didn't just come to this sooner though.
I should have known it was TMS/MBS with the way my symptoms would sort of shift and change with each negative prognosis given to me.

In my time off from 2013-2105 from doctors, I only really ever saw a doctor a few times about a sore throat to find out that I was allergic to Milk.
I really think this too is TMS/MBS as well though. I admit when I first started avoiding Dairy my symptoms improved, but then it became wildly inconsistent. My throat would sometimes be sore for weeks when I know I hadn't eaten any Dairy, and then sometimes when I would intentionally eat Dairy (I love ice cream), I wouldn't even get so much as a tickle! Now I rarely ever have a sore throat when I eat dairy, but I have wild eczema that at first correlated with when I ate dairy, but then started to have a mind of it's own like the sore throat.

Our bodies are so weird and complex, it's hard to not marvel at them even if they can be a pain sometimes.
I can't wait for the day that I can go to a regular doctor and have them talk to me about some of this stuff. The connections seem so obvious.

I will check out what you suggested, I am familiar with Gabor Mate and am a huge fan.

What was your TMS struggle?


Thanks again!
Kyle

 

Hi, Kyle. You poor guy, to have gone through so much so young. But I do think your symptoms are caused by TMS, repressed emotions. I suggest you stop thinking your pains are physical and believe in TMS, that they are psychological. The Structured Educational Program, free in the subforum of this web site, helped heal me of severe back pain and has healed many others. It will help you to discover the emotional causes of your pain.

Welcome to the TMS community. We will look forward to your future posts. I am confident they will be positive healing reports.

I didn't learn about TMS until I was 82. I'm 85 now and consider it one of the best things that ever happened to me. I not only healed from back pain but learned more about myself and others than I ever imagined. So will you.

 

Hi Walt,

Thanks for the reply and words of kind encouragement. I plan to start the structured program today when I am off work! I have to admit, I am quite excited!!!

I used to poke around this forum a lot before taking the leap and signing up, I saw your posts all the time. It was pretty funny to see you replying to my post!

 

Jan,

Thanks so much for your reply.
Hearing your story gives me a lot of hope. It's nice to talk to someone who eliminated symptoms outside of back pain using the ideas behind TMS. I know that this has been done, but sometimes my mind likes to scare me by pointing out that John Sarno's theories were developed around back pain and that symptoms are probably much worse.

But I know I have seen them shift and be wildly inconsistent in nature. I've also had doctors of just about every specialty treat me like I am crazy... So it's got to be TMS/MBS.

I look forward do abandoning my allergies, aches, eczema, digestive issues, anxiety, etc, etc, etc!

 

Hi Kyle,

Welcome to the Forum and Wiki. Your story reads like a catalog of TMS journeys, all rolled into one!

Jan and Walt give you a good welcome and support, in my opinion.

As you engage Dr. Sarno's work fully, you might read your introduction post occasionally to see patterns in how you are engaging Dr. Sarno's work, patterns that are part of the SEP personality. You mention worry for one. There are probably others, including the need for "solid ground" about your condition, and diagnosis. These propensities are not wrong; they are natural to you.

When you enter Sarno's work, you bring all the personality traits that cause TMS, into your new work. That can't be helped. But it can be seen for what it is, and with mindfullness and insight, relax over time. Or simply connected to your symptoms. "I am being perfectionistic about my SEP program. How might my Inner Child feel about this?" for instance.

My work with myself is about developing self-compassion, and working with the Inner Critic, work that tends to challenge the TMS personality patterns. You have a lot of awareness in your path so far, reading your story. I hope you can step back, know you are on the right path, and observe the whole journey with compassion.

Andy B.