I am still doing the SEP slowly but I am not feeling any better. I have a tight spot on the low right side of my back that is constant. I can't seem to shake it. It has been there for weeks. No matter what! I am doing everything I know to do with all my TMS knowledge but to no avail. Ugh!!!!! Kind of depressing. I was needing advice to a very hard situation that my family has come upon this last week about moving. My husband could take a promotion and move out of state. We have been wanting this for years. The only thing holding us back is my "back". I am scared to move because my support system is here, my doctors are here, my therapist is here, etc..... I husband is annoyed with the situation but understands if he should turn down the promotion because of my health. I am feeling a lot of guilt the past few days about this but at the same time relieved if we do stay. This would be his only opportunity to ever be promoted again. I don't know what to do?? I am barely treading water in the sea of my TMS now this, I feel selfish. I can't sleep now not only because of the pain but from the stress. I wish I felt normal and could say "when are we moving?" I feel I am in a haze. I am always saying if only I didn't have pain, if only... Any advice? Should I encourage him and move? Even if this means I might suffer more because of the stress? I just wish this promotion would have came a year from now when I had this TMS under control. Help!!!! Thank you!