SteveO's New Book : "BACK PAIN PERMANENT HEALING"

Page ix, Foreword by Paul Gwozdz. MD :

"I want to emphasize how important having confidence in Dr. Sarno's teachings is to the healing process. Please note that I use the term "confidence" instead of "faith" since Dr. Sarno is not teaching religion."​

 

page 1: "...he (Dr. Sarno) began to look more deeply into his patients' charts where he noticed that his back pain patients also had many other things going on with their health. In addition to back pain, many had bouts of shoulder and hip pain, knee pain, foot and hand pain, skin problems, anxiety, depression, migraines, ulcers, irritable bowel, heartburn, frequent urination, and allergies, etc."​

 

page 2:

"The most important concept to understand in healing back pain is the power of belief. What you believe will determine how bad or how long you will suffer, or whether you will ever heal."​

 

Steve's new book is terrific. It says it all, and he's right in continuing physical activity.

And he's right in calling it "confidence" in TMS, if "belief" is too spiritual for some people.

 

Wow - TT is here and SteveO has a new book. I’m glad I dropped by. I’m feeling like crap, but oh well. I think I’ll order the book right away.

 

Most people aren't really willing to accept 'faith healing' because there is no sc

 

It took me many months after I read doctor Sarno's book to really understand what he want me to do to heal. He want us to believe in his diagnosis, he want us to realize that tms symptoms are reversible and benign. What he really want us to achieve is: DO NOT FEAR OUR SYMPTOMS.
no fear no pain. We can never never heal if we still fear our symptoms no matter what methods we're are using or which teachers we are believing in. We can journal every day for years, we can meditate 10 hours every day for years, no matter what we try to do, if fear of our symptoms still exist we will not heal.
After realizing that all my mind body syndromes are history.

 

This is the essence of Ron Siegel's book Back Sense. No repressed emotions, no distraction theory, no inner children or bullies, just this: fear (and anxiety) create muscle tension. Muscle tension creates pain, often severe. Pain, in turn, ramps up fear and anxiety. The fear/pain/fear cycle. So the only way to break the cycle is to overcome the fear.

 

Maybe that's part of my problem. I only partially believe that my nervous feeling and prickly hypersensitive legs sensation are psychological. My mind keeps going back to 'doctors missed something and I actually have some sort of autoimmune/autonomic disorder'. Very distressing...

 

What created the fear?

 

So, are you saying Ron Siegel got it right and Dr. Sarno is wrong? Repressed emotions, creating structural or affective TMS symptoms, as a distraction from having to deal with overwhelming life issues (see Holmes-Rahe list), are not the cause of TMS/psychosomatic pain? And that "anxiety" is not a TMS affective symptom, but the cause of the TMS pain symptom?

 

I see no need to get into that debate. It isn't helpful to anyone. There's a whole 'nother forum full of those debates if anyone cares.

My point rather was that from a different perspective, another mindbody clinician came to the same conclusion that Balto observes: losing fear is crucial. This is meant to reinforce the message which in fact resonates through many success stories: that whatever paradigm one finds most meaningful, fear is key. Relax, nobody is attacking Dr. Sarno.

 

Quit being patronizing to me, I find it offensive. Looks like BeWell has pulled his posts and is gone from here--nice job on him. Where is the "other site" you mentioned, is it the Ron Siegel Back Sense site?Having several or more psychosomatic pain sites is a good thing--competition is good for survival of the species.

 

It's my fault BeWell apparently posted something offensive (I didn't see it) and was censored by the mods and reacted childishly by taking his toys and going home? Oh please, Tom, that is unworthy of you. And you of course know what forum I am referring to, you have thousands of posts there. Anyhow, again, feel free to have the last word, I don't think these discourses help anyone but if you are going to misconstrue what I said as an attack on Dr. Sarno then I feel I should respond at least once by pointing out that that was not at all my intent.

 

Thank you no offense taken, I just don't want you to inadvertently disseminate any non factual tautolaogical paradigms at a TMS site in honor of Dr. Sarno, that may unconsciously transform themselves into NOCEBOS for you or others.

BeWell was not censored, (that was probably me for mentioning a form of O2 deprivation caused by placing one's cranium into one's rectal treasure chest--so to speak). He left here on his own accord, (SEE HIS BIO), after expressing his heartfelt views on TMS, and having to suppress and repress his emotions and getting the wind taken out of his sails--GOD forbid, anyone express any true emotions around a TMS site. I truly hope he reconsiders and comes back, this site could use the diversity he displayed in his all too brief visit.

COME BACK BE WELL!
tt/lsmft

 

page 4,

Dr. Sarno turned the world inside out with his keen observation that people unconsciously create their own pain in order to divert their awareness to their body distracting them away from their thoughts, feelings and emotions.​

 

I've often thought that muscle tension from anxiety/fear created my pelvic issues and not TMS. It is a viscious cycle. It makes sense to me since I believe a traumatic surgery when I was a child caused me to tighten the pelvic floor. No amount of pelvic physical therapy has ever helped because I can't release the anxiety I feel. How do you not feel anxious in this world?

I know Dr. Sarno has written that anxiety is a TMS equivilant. I believe in TMS because I got rid of neck pain that I had for 1.5 years. But for example, I've had tinnitus since I was child. Just figured this was normal and never tried to do anything about it until I read that it is also a TMS equivilant. So I'm confused that it did not go away on it's own since I never sought treatment for it, and never really paid any attention to it.

 

Regarding whether anxiety is a form of TMS, I have experienced panic attacks so bad that, had there been an option at the moment to choose dying, I would have taken it. Countless people have experienced and described the same. For myself, I do not believe for a minute that these somehow are a distraction from deeper negative emotions created by the brain or mind or what have you, in the same way that back pain and other somatic symptoms might be. Just my opinion and yes I am well aware of what certain books say, I've read them too.

 

I realized that the panic attacks I have will never fully go away when last week I had to be in the front row of a large group of people for work. I normally sit in the very back so I can make my escape if necessary. As I was sitting down I looked back and the terror that I felt was as if I was on the ledge of a very tall building. I ended up taking half of a benzo that I carry in my purse for emergencies. I was floored at how intensely the feeling was. I'm grateful that I don't feel like this more often like I used to when I was younger, but it was still just as frightening as my very first one 30 years ago. It is hard to "float" like Clare Weekes recommends when you are dizzy from panic. Add in the thought that goes through your mind that you might pass out and make a fool of yourself in front of so many people.