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Cactusflower's Recent Activity

  1. Cactusflower replied to the thread Ask a therapist.

    No, it is unfortunately not.

    Jul 26, 2024 at 8:05 PM

  2. Cactusflower replied to the thread New here and trying to figure it out.

    Welcome! Your Dr. has already told you that your current symptoms are not able to be medically treated. This is the biggest clue you can...

    Jul 26, 2024 at 11:02 AM

  3. Cactusflower replied to the thread Stiffness.

    I would recommend you read Freedom From Nervous Suffering by Dr Claire Weekes. She describes "nervous aching" - although she describes...

    Jul 25, 2024 at 3:24 PM

  4. Cactusflower liked BloodMoon's post in the thread But...nothing is working and my pain is getting worse!.

    I've just watch the video you posted plus some more of Miriam's videos - and they are really, really good! Thanks for posting this,...

    Jul 24, 2024 at 1:59 PM

  5. Cactusflower liked Diana-M's post in the thread But...nothing is working and my pain is getting worse!.

    Wow! Thanks, @Cactusflower! I really like Miriam. First time I’ve heard her. And this video in particular speaks to me! She says: “If...

    Jul 24, 2024 at 1:59 PM

  6. Cactusflower liked JanAtheCPA's post in the thread Stuck.

    @Cactusflower had the same reaction to your two responses that I did, @Bagpuss - I immediately noticed the Yes, But... in each one. I...

    Jul 24, 2024 at 1:58 PM

  7. Cactusflower replied to the thread TMS the return?.

    Why don’t you trust the opinion of a well regarded and experienced TMS physician? What is stressing you at home, in your life? My...

    Jul 24, 2024 at 1:57 PM

  8. Cactusflower replied to the thread Stuck.

    1. Stop the buts. Your answer above is a but. You read the book but are not yet able to implement all the strategies. No buts. Work on...

    Jul 24, 2024 at 12:36 PM

  9. Cactusflower liked Ruth65's post in the thread Day 2 Day 2-ish.

    Okay, really yesterday was Day 2, but I only finished the Day 2 exercises today. Honestly, my inner voice is there - telling me what a...

    Jul 23, 2024 at 10:26 PM

  10. Cactusflower replied to the thread Stuck.

    Hi @Bagpuss Welcome! “Driving Me Nuts” -there’s a phrase that should be highlighted. You may need to re-read the Way Out and look...

    Jul 23, 2024 at 8:54 PM

  11. Cactusflower posted a new thread.

    But...nothing is working and my pain is getting worse!

    I like to watch free youtube TMS videos once or twice a week. Most of the time, the advice given is really helpful. I like hearing the...

    Forum: General Discussion Subforum

    Jul 23, 2024 at 1:21 PM

  12. Cactusflower replied to the thread How do I keep supporting my hubby?.

    Because his brain is perceiving there is something "wrong" - we all get triggered. What triggers you to get upset? How do you feel - in...

    Jul 22, 2024 at 8:56 PM

  13. Cactusflower replied to the thread Day 1 Tbh I think this is kind of stupid but I'm doing it anyway.

    "As for the victimhood thing, I'm not so sure. I haven't told many folks about this. The ones I have usually suggest meditation or...

    Jul 22, 2024 at 8:44 PM

  14. Cactusflower replied to the thread Help!!.

    Yep. Your parents are stubborn as heck... so why MUST you fix them? Dad is in the hospital and being taken care of. His care is not in...

    Jul 22, 2024 at 2:11 PM

  15. Cactusflower replied to the thread How do I keep supporting my hubby?.

    Itsmetamara: It's absolutely wonderful you are wanting to support your husband! I think that Dr. Hanscom has the best advice for...

    Jul 22, 2024 at 1:53 PM
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