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A word about outcome independence

Discussion in 'Alan Gordon TMS Recovery Program' started by Alan Gordon LCSW, Sep 4, 2012.

  1. Karim

    Karim Peer Supporter

    I only can continúe if the body Is already warmed up . I have to have the suffocating effects a couple of times in a sesión AND then i can excercise insnt that weird
  2. Karim

    Karim Peer Supporter

    Ir feels like my head Is gonna Explode from high blood pressure
  3. Karim

    Karim Peer Supporter

    Dr schubiner says that not all pain Is caused by repressed emotions
  4. Karim

    Karim Peer Supporter

    At first whenmy symptoms came out they treated it as something emotional when to psycologist Psyquiatrist and nothing Man the pain was unbereable so one dr decides Is sympathetic stuff not caused by emotions
  5. JanAtheCPA

    JanAtheCPA Beloved Grand Eagle

    If you have high blood pressure you must be treated immediately by a doctor, because that is a serious medical problem.

    We can not tell you if you should be worried about symptoms of exercise stress. If you have been medically cleared to exercise, you need to consult a trainer.

    But Karim, here's what I see as I look at your barrage of posts: you appear to have some kind of severe anxiety or panic disorder. You need mental health therapy, beyond what you can get from books, and beyond what you can get here. I'm very sorry for you, but that's the hard truth as I see it. Please, get help right away for this. You may be suffering severe emotional trauma, perhaps due to your accidents, and you need help we are not qualified to give you here.

    We only work on TMS here. We are not medical or mental health professionals and we can't diagnose, and we ultimately do not
    discuss symptoms. This is because if you have TMS, you learn that the only way to start healing is to recognize that the details of the symptoms do not matter.

    I see that you need help, that's obvious. But you don't think you have TMS. You have rejected or ignored all the TMS advice you have received.

    If you don't have TMS, and if you refuse to accept the TMS methods of healing, then you must get help somewhere else.
  6. paula58

    paula58 New Member

    I get this concept in principle but struggle to see where tuning into my body and not overdoing things when my head is feeling a bit dodgy fits in. So, i should do what i planned to do regardless of how I feel on a particular day as otherwise I am encouraging the pain and babying myself? And in terms of pain that arises out of this choice, is taking analgesics also a no no for the same reason, that I am just perpetuating the cycle?
  7. miffybunny

    miffybunny Beloved Grand Eagle

    Analgesics cannot help in the case of TMS (psychogenic pain) because it's not acute (normal pain), it's chronic pain coming from neural circuits that are sending false alarm symptoms. At best it's a temporary placebo but in the long run, all you are doing is reinforcing the idea in your head that your problem is physical. It's basically counter productive. The goal is to reduce and eliminate fear , not symptoms. The more you focus on symptoms and sensations, the more you perpetuate the fear-pain-fear loop. The way to train your brain out of that loop is to gradually do little things that challenge those fears. You start small and build your way up so as to gain confidence. It's a shift in mindset from focus on the body to focus on your life. The more you do the things you need and want to do, the more you are getting practice at abolishing fear. When you lose the fear, the symptoms (the tms) goes away without you having to do anything, It ceases to have a purpose. There are also ways of calming down the brain and making it feel safe (creating safety) without using physical crutches (pills, pillows, looking for some magic bullet etc)...for example: guided mediations (there are lots on YT), walking in nature, doing a hobby you enjoy, calling a friend who makes you laugh, keeping a gratitude journal, saying affirmations etc etc.
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  8. paula58

    paula58 New Member

  9. paula58

    paula58 New Member

    Thank you, this is very useful.
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  10. Cap'n Spanky

    Cap'n Spanky Well known member

    Wow, this outcome independence stuff is very helpful Thank you, Alan!!

    Thanks to Dr. Sarno and others, I've been very fortunate to recover from all my pain issues for many years now. But TMS is a sneaky and persistent bastard. Recently, I've struggled with something that's a little hard to describe. It's kind of a hyper-immune, allergic reaction that results in fatigue and a sick feeling. It's brought on by exercise. It's almost like I have a cold, but I don't. Anyway... I'm seeing success applying Alan's concepts.

    To reinforce it in my head, I'm going to paraphrase my personal interpretation of outcome independence. Some of you may quibble with my paraphrase and that's cool. I welcome other views.

    Live my life. Focus on the things I want and hope for.
    Don't worry or obsess about my symptoms. Don't project about the future of my symptoms.
    - In a sense; minimize and trivialize the symptoms to their appropriate status in my life.
    - Often, even ignore symptoms.
    And this is key: When symptoms do grab my attention, take a step back and focus on the emotions surrounding my symptoms, not the symptoms themselves.
    Last edited: Oct 22, 2020
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  11. mugwump

    mugwump Well known member

    Thank you for sharing your words, Alan!
  12. Balsa11

    Balsa11 Well known member

    Maybe making it more consistent and less intense?
  13. Cap'n Spanky

    Cap'n Spanky Well known member

    Hi Balsa11 - yes, I think that's right!

    By-the-way, I've had a slight change of heart regarding my statements above "... ignore symptoms", etc. After going through Alan's Pain Recovery Program, I now see it as mindfully observing our pain/symptoms in a detached way. Focus like a laser on the emotions and fear they stir up. Do some self-soothing and teach our minds that there's nothing to fear from the pain.

    We may still want to ignore and minimize pain/symptoms sometimes. From experience, I know this works. But to force ourselves to always ignore them might actually create more fear and anxiety around them. It's more honest to confront them head on. This is something new and profound I learned from Alan's Pain Recovery Program.
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  14. Sayde

    Sayde New Member

    Hi, where can I find forests video?

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